Help my wife focus on beating cancer

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Oscar Villinger Villinger
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Deidre’s Journey – 2025/2026

Deidre’s journey this year has been nothing short of hell.

(Photos are in the attached word document)

It started quietly in November 2025 with bowel problems that just wouldn’t settle. By December she was in and out of hospitals — both government and private — where doctors kept missing what

was really happening. They sent her home more than once, telling her it was “just a blockage.” On New Year’s Eve the pain got so bad she was rushed to hospital again, only to be sent home once more. Then, in the early hours of 1 January 2026, at 1am, we were back at Greys Hospital in Pietermaritzburg. A CT scan finally showed the truth: a massive blockage and her colon badly swollen. That same day she went into emergency surgery. It took seven hours and four surgeons. They removed her entire colon and created a stoma bag. The reality of what that meant is captured in these photos we took afterward:

January was spent in the emergency ward with tubes everywhere — for pain, for feeding, for everything. She couldn’t eat pr...

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O. Villinger 19 May '26
Sorry I forgot to add that things are so bad now that they decided to remove the rest period in between chemo sessions. This is going to hit her hard and fast. So basically day 1 is blood infusion c...

O. Villinger 19 May '26
Hi there. Really am sorry for no updates :(. Between work and trying to care for my wife has been a nightmare. So we are still awaiting on the results from the “pap smeer” to see what the growth is...

O. Villinger 5 May '26
So I have been silent here to give updates… She is not well. The chemo was delayed once again :(. Her sodium and WBC was to low. She is loosing weight still. Cannot even stand for 5 minutes and her...
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